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bellinghman ([personal profile] bellinghman) wrote2007-10-09 09:26 am

Oh for prayers

Sometimes, I could do with not being an atheist.

Today. my mother goes into hospital. We're all hoping it goes well, but it is a cancer that's being cut out. [livejournal.com profile] bellinghwoman and I were over there the day before yesterday doing a filial visit (showing the pictures from Japan, taking her out to the Thai Tai in Brackley), and generally acknowledging what was about to happen, but not rushing around panicking. I think that's calmed her down a lot.

[identity profile] mrscosmopilite.livejournal.com 2007-10-09 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
How about positive vibes and big *hugs*

I'm sure the visit was a help to her, acknowledging that something is happening is important, often people don't talk, for many reasons, when it's cancer and that can leave the person with it feeling very isolated.
Fingers crossed all goes to pan.

[identity profile] bellinghman.livejournal.com 2007-10-09 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes, it's what you meant to say that matters, and that's how we'll take it. Thanks.

('goes to pan'?)

[identity profile] mrscosmopilite.livejournal.com 2007-10-09 09:41 am (UTC)(link)
indeed it is. Just knowing you are there for her will make a difference

(plan!- typing after too little sleep is a bad thing)